Musings

Welcome to My Musings

This is where I pour my thoughts onto the page—unedited, honest, and sometimes laced with a little dark humor. From deep dives into trauma healing and resilience to the chaotic realities of writing a memoir, this space is a reflection of my journey.

Expect musings on survival, self-discovery, and the messy, beautiful process of rebuilding a life after trauma. Some days, I might share reflections on healing. Other days, you might find me ranting about the publishing world or chasing down obscure historical facts that probably won’t make it into a book—but absolutely should.

Whatever brought you here, I hope you find something that resonates. Grab a cup of coffee (or something stronger), and let’s navigate this wild journey together.

🖤 Jessica

  • Bruises You Can’t See: Bullying, ACEs, and the Long Shadow into Adulthood

    Bullying leaves more than hurt feelings—it can cause lifelong emotional and physical harm. In this personal and research-backed post, I share my story, explore the link between bullying and Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), and call for change in how we address peer abuse.

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  • The author shares their journey of living with Addison’s disease, reflecting on feelings of grief, loneliness, and loss of identity. Despite being diagnosed after years of struggle and misunderstanding, they express resilience through writing. They acknowledge the isolation brought on by illness and emphasize that they are not alone in this experience.

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  • Silencing Survivors Won’t Save a Broken System

    The NY Post’s latest op-ed dismisses abuse survivors of the troubled teen industry. Here’s why that’s not just wrong—it’s harmful and dangerously misleading.

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